We live in a competitive, status-driven society. From an early age, we (and especially men) are told to get ahead, to be on top. It sounds good but all around us, we experience the havoc it causes: insecurity, anxiety, fear, suspicion, division, rivalry – and ultimately violence. Struggling to get ahead, be on top, more significant than others always takes away inner peace and creates outer destruction. It makes it impossible to truly appreciate and love others since they could be seen as more important than we. How we need the example of St. Joseph, the “just man”! His life shows us that strength and courage, as well as respect and love — and therefore authentic holiness –, come not from striving mightily to look better than others but from peacefully accepting the goodness and sufficiency of ourselves as we are – and others as they are. Joseph was never the NUMBER ONE person in his marriage with Mary nor in his role as foster-father of Jesus. Yet he was absolutely essential and important. God’s work could not have been accomplished without that loving acceptance. Human holiness is nothing other than genuine human “wholeness.” What holiness/wholeness we’d discover if we’d “go to Joseph” and learn from him. We’d have greater peace inside ourselves and this world, so wounded by destructive competition, would also know more peace –and be much safer besides!
St. Joseph, pray for us!.
~ Fr. Dan Crosby, ofm cap
https://www.thecapuchins.org/ministries/detroit/st-bonaventure-monastery