All posts by Andrea Perry

Recognizing the Sacred

Today’s gospel focuses on Joseph who receives a message from God in a dream. An angel tells him to take Mary as his wife because her child is born of the Holy Spirit. Joseph wakes up and does what God says. No explanation of what his place is in all this is. No advice about how he would deal with the fact that she was pregnant before their marriage. No warning about the hardships that lay ahead of him. Joseph just does what his dream tells him to do. He gives Mary his strength. He gives her comfort in her hour of need, and he hopes that his faith and love will be enough to be able to finish what God asks him to do. Joseph not only enabled Christ to be born, he provides a safe nurturing place where Christ could grow. 

Joseph did what he did because he was a righteous man. He opened himself up to God’s voice and so was sensitive to divine visitation. Through his dreams God directed the course of his life and Joseph not only took those dreams seriously, he acted on them even though they left many questions unanswered. How many of us would have taken on as much as he did on the strength of a dream? Would you uproot your family and take off for another country because of a dream you had? In order to act like Joseph, we would have to be a lot more open and a lot more sensitive to the messengers God sends us. 

All Joseph had to assure him was his faith, a faith that told him God would be there every step of the way. That was obviously enough for him. He needed no other proof or explanation. Unfortunately, we do not operate on such faith today. We question and analyze everything we are asked to do. We try and control our outer life so much that our inner life is marked by a sense

of emptiness, unease, and incompleteness. So that is where God talks to us asking us to prepare a place where Christ can be born, nurtured, and allowed to grow. I know this to be true because it was into the restlessness and emptiness of my own life that God’s message convinced me that I was being called to this way of life. You may think it’s stupid to make such a radical change based on a “dream” that God was calling you. But once you get a glimpse of the divine, once you understand, as Joseph did, just how close God really is to you, and how involved he is in the life of his people, then, like Joseph, you can’t help but let go of the prejudices and fears that keep you from acting according to his will. 

God is still sending his messages to us, telling us what he wants us to do with our lives, telling us what he wants us to become. But like Joseph, we have to be able to recognize the sacred in our lives in order to hear those messages and to make the right choices. 

Somebody says something cruel about somebody else, not only cruel but funny, and everyone laughs. Do we laugh too, or do we defend the person even if we don’t like them ourselves? When a friend has hurt us, do we cut them out of our lives and act like we never were friends, or do we try and build a bridge over the hurt? When we are alone in our own thoughts do we think about our lost opportunities, our lost youth, our lost love ones, or do we take enjoyment in the life we have and thank God for the promise of each new day? Is our outlook on life destructive, cynical, self-defeating, or is it creative, hopeful, and glad. 

All these little choices and inner skirmishes that go into making up our days may seem to add up to very little at the time, but in the long run, they are important because it is precisely in all those small meaningless encounters with others that provide an opportunity to become more sensitive to the

messages God sends us. Maybe the message we receive is not as important as the one sent to Joseph in today’s gospel, but the message is the same, be strong… be merciful…help one another. 

In a way, God is asking each one of us to help Christ be born out of the emptiness which is inside of us. But unless we open up a channel for the word of God to enter we will not be aware of it. We will never see how intimately God is involved in our lives. We must open ourselves up to God’s divine presence, as Joseph did, and listen to what God wants us to do. Then we must try and create a place of safety, a place of welcoming for those who are in need, those we work with, those we live with, those who are forced to live on the streets, those who are closed off by walls of poverty, prejudice, and pain. 

Unless we act like Joseph and are willing to change the course of our lives for God. Unless we too seek to be righteous people and do as God asks us to do, Christ will never be born in us, nor have a chance to live among us.

Msgr. Michael Busch
St Jerome’s Parish
Ontario, Canada

Joseph’s Sacred Duty

The New Testament presents Christ as the new High Priest, offering the perfect sacrifice
to the Father. Though not explicitly stated, there are also many allusions in the New Testament to Mary as the Ark of the Covenant, a connection that was made explicit in the writings of the early Church. In this schema, drawing from the ritual practices of ancient Israel, is there room for St. Joseph? I think there is. If Jesus is the High Priest of the New Covenant and Mary is the Ark, I believe St. Joseph is the Levite.

Let me first say that, unlike the identification of Jesus as the High Priest and Mary as the Ark, the idea of St. Joseph as the Levite does not have widely recognized Scriptural underpinnings, nor am I aware of any other writers who make the connection. But from what little Scripture does say about St. Joseph, I think we can see a connection to the Levites of the Old Covenant.

Who were the Levites? The Levites were one of the twelve tribes of Israel. The tribe of Levi was unique in that all the ministers of the Tabernacle, and later the Temple, were of the tribe of Levi. Those descended from Levi’s great-great-grandson Aaron were the priests who offered sacrifice. The descendants of Levi who were not descended from Aaron functioned as Levites. The Levites did not offer sacrifice but had other roles, including carrying the Ark of the Covenant (1 Chronicles 15:2) and custody of the items used for worship (Numbers 1:50-53). They are described as being given to the priest to assist them (Numbers 8:19). The Levites also helped prepare the sacrifices, in particular the Passover lambs (2 Chronicles 35:11) and the showbread (1 Chronicles 9:31).

From this, we can begin to see a connection to St. Joseph. Just as the Levites were tasked with assisting the priests in the Temple and caring for the Ark of the Covenant, so St. Joseph was charged with serving the new High Priest and the new Ark, Jesus, and Mary. As the Levites helped prepare the sacrifices, Joseph helped Jesus, the Lamb of God, and Bread of Life, to prepare for His supreme sacrifice. St. Luke hints at this when he says that Christ was obedient to Joseph and Mary and so grew in wisdom, stature, and favor (Luke 2:51-52). St. Joseph’s teaching and example were part of Jesus’s preparation for His mission.

Seeing Joseph as the new Levite also helps us understand his marital continence. In the Old Testament, sexual relations, even between a husband and wife, rendered them ritually impure (Leviticus 15:16-18). It should be noted that ritual impurity is distinct from moral impurity. Sex between a married couple was not considered morally sinful, but it did make them ritually impure. For most people, being in a state of ritual purity had no bearing on their daily lives. However, priests and Levites were required to be ritually pure while fulfilling their duties. The priests and Levites were divided into groups that took turns throughout the year, and during their service, they were required to maintain ritual purity, which included sexual continence. If Joseph is the Levite tasked with serving the High Priest and the New Ark, then his service lasted not simply for two weeklong terms each year but from the time he took Mary into his home until his death. As such, we can understand his maintaining sexual continence so as to be ritually pure.

Understanding St. Joseph in the context of a Levite also shines a light on common the priesthood of the faithful. As the Catechism states, all of the faithful share in the priesthood of  Christ. St. Joseph was not a Levite by genealogy. He was descended of King David and of the Tribe of Judah. In fact, Joseph’s fear of taking Mary as his wife echoes David’s fear of bringing the Ark into Jerusalem (2 Samuel 6:9). Yet, St. Joseph fulfilled a priestly role. He did not do this by serving liturgically in the Temple but in the course of his daily life. In his role as a husband, father, and worker, St. Joseph also fulfilled his role as the Levite of the New Covenant. Likewise, the members of the lay faithful participate in the priesthood of Christ in the midst of their daily lives. We serve Christ and prepare the parts of our lives so that they can be united to His perfect sacrifice, just as the Levites served the priests and prepared the sacrifices for them.

Seeing St. Joseph as the Levite of the New Covenant also provides greater depth to his role in salvation history. He was not only there to provide for the material needs of Mary and Jesus. He had a sacred duty, one which is ultimately tied to Christ’s role as the new High Priest. As we draw closer to St. Joseph, he helps us to see how our daily lives also cooperate in the sacrifice of Jesus.

~Fr. Dotson
St Charles Borromeo
St Charles, MO

Father’s Matter

On January 19th, my family and I observed the one-year anniversary of the passing of my dad. It was an opportunity to reflect on the role he had in my life and the realization that dad really does matter. He taught me many things about life but the most important thing he passed on to me was the importance of having and growing my relationship with my Heavenly Father. 

The impact of the father on the spiritual lives of his family is critically important. Studies have shown that when men are active in the spiritual development of their children, they are much more likely to remain involved in a life of faith. It doesn’t take much of a look around to realize that we men have failed in our duties. Our children and their children are leaving churches of all types in droves. The level of spiritual development and engagement among our young adults and teens does not paint a pretty picture for the future. 

Perhaps it is time to step back and look at a role model we can all aspire to imitate. St. Joseph is the role model that all fathers should follow. His humble obedience to the will of the Heavenly Father is a shining example of what we as fathers and grandfathers are called to emulate. He was thrust into a role that would be hard to comprehend. Betrothed to a young woman probably in her mid-teens, St. Joseph has to deal with her pregnancy and the explanation that followed. Not wanting to disgrace or endanger her, he seeks to quietly divorce her. An angel of the Lord appears to let him know what he needs to do. He trusts that this is a duty that has been given to him, to raise this Son of God. 

We don’t know much about the life of St. Joseph, but we can see the results in his work. Jesus is raised by a man who teaches him a craft and lives the life faith he was called to live. St. Joseph was his guide, his mentor not only in his learning a skill but in teaching him the faith of God’s chosen people. He trusted the will of God and lived out as an example to Jesus. 

What St. Joseph shows and teaches us is the act of having a simple trust in God. He showed the strength of his character was in that trust. This is something all of us could work on. We don’t always know where we’re going but we know if we seek the will of the Father, we’ll get where we’re supposed to be. I suspect St. Joseph relied on that principle. Trust is a hard thing to develop especially when we don’t always see the results. I believe that this trust was further developed in St. Joseph’s life of prayer. It’s hard to develop trust without taking time to get to know someone. Prayer is that way in which we come to know God so we can develop that trust like St. Joseph.

In this year of St. Joseph, take some time in prayer to ask him to help guide you as he did Jesus. That is especially true for those fathers and grandfathers out there. Become that spiritual leader you are called to be. Show your children and grandchildren the importance of coming to know the Heavenly Father. Tell them the story of St. Joseph and his great trust in God. It’ll be a good lesson for them. 

Deacon Dave Profitt
Director, St. Anne Retreat Center
Melbourne, KY. 41058
www.stanneretreatcenter.org

Number One

We live in a competitive, status-driven society.  From an early age, we (and especially men) are told to get ahead, to be on top.  It sounds good but all around us, we experience the havoc it causes: insecurity, anxiety, fear, suspicion, division, rivalry – and ultimately violence.  Struggling to get ahead, be on top, more significant than others always takes away inner peace and creates outer destruction.  It makes it impossible to truly appreciate and love others since they could be seen as more important than we. How we need the example of St. Joseph, the “just man”!   His life shows us that strength and courage, as well as respect and love — and therefore authentic holiness –, come not from striving mightily to look better than others but from peacefully accepting the goodness and sufficiency of ourselves as we are – and others as they are.  Joseph was never the NUMBER ONE person in his marriage with Mary nor in his role as foster-father of Jesus.  Yet he was absolutely essential and important.  God’s work could not have been accomplished without that loving acceptance.  Human holiness is nothing other than genuine human “wholeness.”  What holiness/wholeness we’d discover if we’d “go to Joseph” and learn from him.  We’d have greater peace inside ourselves and this world, so wounded by destructive competition, would also know more peace –and be much safer besides! 

St. Joseph, pray for us!. 

~ Fr. Dan Crosby, ofm cap
 https://www.thecapuchins.org/ministries/detroit/st-bonaventure-monastery

Man of God

Today, I would like us to focus on Saint Joseph and get to know him better as the man of God that he is. 

Matthew and Luke, the two Evangelists who speak most of Joseph, tell us very little, yet enough for us to appreciate what sort of father he was, and the mission entrusted to him by God. We know that  Joseph was a carpenter, betrothed to Mary. Saint Matthew refers to him as a “just man”, obedient to  God’s will as revealed to him in the Law and through the four dreams which he had. After a long and tiring journey from Nazareth to Bethlehem, Joseph beheld the birth of the Messiah in a stable, since  “there was no place for them” in the inn. He witnessed and was present at the adoration of the shepherds on Christmas night and of the Magi when they came. 

Saint Joseph was a tender and loving father. The greatness of Saint Joseph is that he was the spouse of Mary and the foster-father of Jesus. In this way, he placed himself at the service of the entire plan of salvation. Joseph concretely expressed his fatherhood by making his life a sacrificial service to the  Holy Family. In the Holy Family, he turned his human vocation of domestic love into a superhuman oblation of himself, his heart, and all his abilities, a love placed at the service of the Messiah who was growing to maturity in his home. Joseph saw Jesus grow daily in wisdom and in years, and Jesus saw  Joseph grow in his sacrifice of self which deepened each and every day. 

Saint Joseph was also an obedient and accepting father. Joseph was deeply troubled by Mary’s mysterious pregnancy. He was unwilling to put her to shame, so resolved to dismiss her quietly But, as he considered this, God revealed his saving plan to Joseph in a dream. In a dream! I suppose that makes sense for the typical “guy way of discernment”. Got a problem? Take a nap! I think Saint Joseph and I are going to get along just fine this year Saint Joseph’s trust in God was authentic; his naps were not an escape from difficulty, but an authentic realization that there are moments in our life which we must leave to God. He deeply desired to do God’s will and trusted that God would show him the way. In every situation, Joseph trusted firmly in God, waited patiently for Him to show him the way, and obeyed promptly when the way was clear.

Often in life, things happen whose meaning we do not understand. Our first reaction is frequently one of disappointment and rebellion. Joseph set aside his own ideas in order to accept the course of events and, mysterious as they seemed, to embrace them, take responsibility for them, and make them part of his own history. Pope Francis tells us that “unless we are reconciled with our own history, we will be unable  to take a single step forward, for we will always remain hostage to our expectations and the  disappointments that follow.” The spiritual path that Joseph traces for us is not one that explains but accepts. Only as a result of this acceptance—not a passive resignation, but a courage and firm proactivity—can we begin to glimpse a broader history, a deeper meaning to how God is working in our lives. 

Each of us can discover in Joseph—the man who goes unnoticed, a daily, discreet, and hidden presence—an intercessor, support, and a guide in times of trouble. Saint Joseph reminds us that those who appear hidden or in the shadows can play an incomparable role in the history of salvation. 

Pope Francis has given the Church this prayer as we get to know Saint Joseph better this year: 

Hail, Guardian of the Redeemer, 

Spouse of the Blessed Virgin Mary. 

To you God entrusted his only Son; 

in you Mary placed her trust; 

with you Christ became man. 

Blessed Joseph, to us too, 

show yourself a father 

and guide us in the path of life. 

Obtain for us grace, mercy, and courage, 

and defend us from every evil. Amen.

~ Father Jeff Hanley
Diocese of Kalamazoo, MI
(Originally given at St. Catherine of Siena Parish in Portage, MI for Holy Family Sunday)

Be faithful like Joseph

During my last year of Seminary, I spent a week with a Benedictine community just outside of Boston, about an hour’s drive outside of Boston.  These Benedictines lived on an old retired Dairy farm.  They used to make their living by milking cows, but the cows were gone when I got there.  They make their living now by writing and selling spiritual material and hosting retreats.  But they still live on that beautiful old farm in a big ramshackle farmhouse.  I had a beautiful week.  I got to pray with the brothers, go to Mass with the brothers, and eat with the brothers.  All meals were in silence and while we ate we listened to one of the brothers read a book.  When I was there they were making their way through a history book.  Then we listened to a few of the rules written by St. Benedict.  

After dinner, every one helped to clean up.  Then it was off to recreation.  For them, recreation meant eating ice cream and cookies.  Not a bad recreation.  Now when I got to the monastery the brothers warned me, “Stay away from brother Oswald,” they would then point him out, “He’ll corner you and he’ll talk your ear off, he does that to all visitors, stay away from him.”  And more than one brother told me this.  And so of course I did get cornered by Brother Oswald, I got cornered many times, and he did talk a lot and I mostly listened not being able to get a word in, but he was a very kind old man.    From that week I only remember one conversation.  Only one out of many.

In that conversation he said; remember that gospel passage where the mother of James and John goes to Jesus and asks him, “Command that these two sons of mine sit, one at your right and the other at your left, in your kingdom.”  And Jesus says to her, “It’s not mine to give, my Father decides that.”  Brother Oswald then says to me, “I know who sits to the right and left of Jesus.”  “His parents sit there, Mary and Joseph sit to the right and left of Jesus.”  Now I’ve never read this anywhere else in a book of theology or heard it from a theologian, but it is a nice thought, and when we look at our churches we do see images of Mary and Joseph on left and right of the tabernacle.  And they are powerful intercessors on our behalf.  In that gospel passage that Brother Oswald referred to, Jesus asked James and John if they were willing to drink the chalice that he was going to drink, to drink the cup of sorrow.  They say yes and they did, but so did Mary and Joseph, they too drank the cup of sorrow.  

Today’s gospel relates to us the first sorrow of Joseph, a very painful human moment.  Joseph is betrothed, he’s betrothed to a woman he loves and he assumes that she loves him right back.  But then the marriage has to be called off, and the reason is an irregular pregnancy, he’s not the father.  Think of the embarrassment and the social awkwardness.  Here’s the woman he loves and she’s pregnant and he’s not the father.  What must he have felt in his heart:  betrayal of infidelity, unrequited love, all the painful psychological stuff of the heart.  And to the spiritual question too, Joseph was a religious man, he must have asked himself, “Where are you, God? Why is this happening?  Why is this happening to me?”    

Now here is the beautiful thing about Joseph, with all this psychological, spiritual, and social trauma going on in his heart, his first thought is of Mary and not himself.  He thinks first of her and not himself, even in the midst of this trauma it’s her he thinks of first.  He’s unwilling to expose her to shame, as we heard he planned to quietly divorce her.  But then the Angel reveals everything.  This seemingly hopeless situation is part of a much richer Divine plan.  And the great virtue of Joseph is that at this key moment he is willing to surrender to a plan and purpose beyond what he can see.  There are still questions and it’s not clear how it’s all going to work out, but he surrenders.  In his great faith and trust in God, he plows ahead with the painful task he’s been given, knowing it’s part of a bigger plan he can’t fully understand.  In his faith, he has a passion for the seemingly impossible.

This statue behind me used to sit above the side altar of my home parish of Sacred Heart in Imlay City.  Now the original church building was torn down in 1972 and Fr. Dunn was giving away many of the church items for a donation.  So my mom gave a five-dollar donation for this statue of St. Joseph.  This statue sat in the corner of the bedroom I shared with my two brothers for the next 15 years.  And I’m surprised that we never broke it.  We would stand on the base and dance with St. Joseph, dress him up in my dad’s shirts and do all sorts of things to him.  And if I were to wake up in the middle of the night he’d be there staring at me, sometimes that was startling.  Now for all those 15 years that Joseph sat in the corner of my bedroom one thing that I unwittingly meditated upon was the closeness of St. Joseph to Jesus. Every day for all those years I meditated on St. Joseph’s close relationship to Jesus.   Joseph always held Jesus close to his heart.  Joseph lived 24/7 with Jesus.  He was with Jesus at home, sharing with him all the mundane and ordinary things of family life.   He was with Jesus at work, teaching him a trade bringing him into all the intricacies of the business world.   He was with Jesus at worship, they went to the temple together, and Joseph taught him the prayers and customs of the Jewish people.  And finally, he was with Jesus when he died; dying in the arms of Jesus. He watched Jesus, he worked with Jesus, he prayed with Jesus, and he adored Jesus, and at the end he died with Jesus at his side.  

To imitate Joseph is to keep the faith even in the midst of contradiction, to imitate Joseph is to keep Jesus close to the heart in the home, the workplace, in worship, and to do of all of these things we know that at the end we will die with Jesus.  For all of these, we pray.  For all of these, our Patron St. Joseph prays on our behalf.  

~Fr. Christopher J. Ankley
St. Joseph, Battle Creek Mi.
Solemnity of St. Joseph (A) St. Joseph ‘17
Matthew 1: 16, 18-21, 24a

Saint Joseph patron saint of workers, pray for us!

I am eternally grateful to be alive living in an era when I have been blessed to be shepherded by first Saint John Paul II, then Pope Benedict XVI, and now Pope Francis.  I really do not remember the Popes before Saint John Paul II since I was quite young during those years.  I am also thankful that Pope Francis has declared 2021 the year of Saint Joseph.  A major Saint who simply does not get enough recognition.

As a Marion Deacon, I often explain that a devotion to Mary equals obedience to God.  This is only second to our devotion to Saint Joseph her most chaste spouse.  Without these two, we would not have the shining example of what it means to obey God!  We know about Mary, but Joseph was just as obedient.  His swift obedience is only matched by his strong faith in God and his trust in Mary.

Who would have blamed him if he did not believe that his fiancée was pregnant via the Holy Spirit?  Who would have chastised him if he had walked away and simply declared that this was too much for him to believe? After all, who was he that God almighty would choose him to be the earthly spouse of the Mother of God; a poor carpenter, unknown, unassuming, with nothing to gain. 

The fact that Saint Joseph stepped up when he had no proof that what he believed to be true was actually divine truth, it is a testament to his incredible amount of faith in God.  If his circumstances had not been true, he would have been the biggest fool throughout history.  Instead Saint Joseph is an excellent example of what it means to be obedient to God, a model husband, and a devoted father.  One of my favorite sayings about obedience is “delayed obedience is disobedience.”  This of course is inspired by Saint Mary and Saint Joseph.

Oh Saint Joseph patron saint of workers, pray for us!

 

Deacon Dean Vernon
Saint Thomas the Apostle
Grand Rapids, Mi

St. Joseph Formed Jesus as a Man

When I was 20, my dad randomly suggested that I should apply to work for the Post Office. In my mid 20’s, he discovered the only house I would ever own. After a 13-year postal career, I would later sell that house and join seminary. He instilled in me my Catholic faith and a good work ethic. It was during seminary that dear ol’ dad would pass from this world to the next. I was at his bedside when the Lord took him home.

Although my father was not in attendance at my priestly ordination Mass in June of 2017, my sister later said that she experienced something profound. She told me that during the ordination Mass, she thought she felt a warm hand gently touch her shoulder. As other family members heard this news, we immediately thought of my dad. He had formed us in the faith, and in a way, he was still with us in shared memories.

A father envisions the faithful completion of his children’s journeys. Although Joseph was not present at Jesus’ Passion, we know that Joseph instilled in Jesus all the qualities and strengths of a faithful Jew, a carpenter, and an upright man. Humble Joseph was an important figure in Christ’s life, even though he didn’t witness His ministry.

The death of St Joseph is wonderfully displayed in a stained-glass window at St. Andrew Cathedral. Mary and Jesus are at Joseph’s side. I often imagine Joseph’s final words were reassurances of faith and of gratitude. What an incredible grace to die in the arms of the two holiest people to ever walk the earth!

This Lent, let us imagine that as Jesus journeyed to save us from sin and death on the cross, St. Joseph had helped prepare Him for this saving act of love.

My father guided me during his time on earth and continues to pray for me from above. In the same way, the upbringing Joseph gave to Jesus helped prepare Him to be crucified, even after Joseph had reached his heavenly home.

Fr Steve Geerling
St Bartholomew & St Joseph
Grand Rapids, MI

“Walk a mile” in St. Joseph’s sandals

How would you like to “walk a mile” in St. Joseph’s sandals?

Joseph of Nazareth:     a kind and gentle man… an honest fellow… a competent craftsman: Joe the Carpenter.

But — like Mary… Zechariah… Elizabeth… and John the Baptizer —Joseph was ALSO one of the chosen ones whose participation was CRITICAL to the safe and loving childhood of Jesus:  JESUS…who was to become the Messiah.

Joseph was a man who carried on the deep faith of his ancestors, who observed the many Jewish tradi­tions that connected him with the sacred history of his people.

It wouldn’t surprise any of us if occasionally Joseph might have felt a little dismay… a little discomfort at having been the one God chose to help parent this little child born of Mary.

As we look back NOW, of course, we know that the role Joseph had to play was CRITICAL … through Jesus’ childhood… adolescence… into adulthood.  We know NOW that Joseph was a special person… set aside … chosen by God to do a job that was committed to him alone … and to no other.

And that’s the way it is for each of US.     We, too, are special… set aside… God’s chosen ones. And it might be good — now and then — to think of Joseph as a model… as we try to live up to God’s awesome expectations of US.

Henry Nouwen, the great spiritual writer, talks about what it means to KNOW that I am “chosen”… to KNOW that I am “special”… that God has assigned some work to ME that he’s not assigned to any other person.

Nouwen says, “When I write that we are God’s chosen ones,  I mean that we have been seen by God FROM ALL ETERNITY as ‘unique’… ‘special’… ‘precious’ beings.”

So long before JOSEPH was born — “from all eternity” — Joseph existed in God’s heart. And long before any of US were born… WE existed in God’s heart.

Long before our parents noticed how cute we were…   long before our teach­ers saw signs of our special gifts …  long before any of that… we were already “chosen” … just as St. Joseph had been chosen.

Just as the eyes of God had seen JOSEPH as pre­cious… as infinitely necessary to do what God needed to have done… so God sees US in that same way.  God chooses us with perfect awareness of the special qualities that only each of us possesses.

Think about this the next time you’re in a room full of volunteers… or at a meeting with a group of people who are trying to do something good. Look around the room, and ask yourself, “Why US, Lord? Why ME?”

Think about the temptation to be “uncertain”… the temptation to “lack confidence”… in YOURSELF… and in “those around you.”  That’s when you have to look around the room and say: “Lord… if you’ve brought us together, you must have a job for us to do that we are extremely qualified for. So I put all my faith and all my trust in your assignment of this work to us.”

Think about JOSEPH’S “temptations of uncertainty”…   HIS lack of confidence, that — had he “succumbed” to it — he might have screwed up the whole deal.

Sometimes… we’re taunted by those dark voices telling us,  “You’re not so special! Who do you think you are? But we must preserve our special-ness in spite of those voices. This is a tough job… a lifelong battle.

We must REMEMBER that — (in God’s eyes) —  WE ARE PRECIOUS… and we have been given a special job to do.

Each of us has been chosen to do some definite service, which God has not committed to any other person.

THINK about Joseph… when the job “God has assigned to YOU”  seems a little overwhelming.

~Deacon Denny Williams
St. Thomas the Apostle Parish, Grand Rapids, MI 49506

The Vocation of Fatherhood

As we consider the vocation of fatherhood, let us first give thanks to our Heavenly Father, who created our inmost being and knit us together in our mothers’ wombs.  (Ps. 139:13-14). He knows better than our earthly fathers what good gifts to give us.  (Lk. 11:11-13).  Let us give Him thanks for all the good gifts he has bestowed upon us out of love, especially the gifts of his only-begotten Son, his spouse the Church, and the sacraments.

Next, let us give thanks to our spiritual fathers, from the Holy Father, Pope Francis, to our bishop and all the pastors of our Diocese who nourish us with the Word of God and the sacraments.  Through their spiritual fatherhood, they help to lead us to our ultimate destination, an eternity spent in joy with our Heavenly Father as beloved sons and daughters.  Let us also give thanks to our earthly fathers, step-fathers, fathers-in-law, and grandfathers for all that they have done for us.  Throughout our lives, they have provided us not only with material support and encouragement but also spiritual support in their role as head of the domestic church.  

For those of us who are fathers, we are called to be one of the primary educators of our children in matters of faith.  As the Catechism notes, “in our own time, in a world often alien and even hostile to faith, believing families are of primary importance as centers of living, radiant faith.”  (CCC 1656). As Vatican II teaches, “The family, so to speak, is the domestic church . . . Parents should be, by word and example, first preachers of faith to their children.”  Reflecting upon the blessings of fatherhood and taking stock of our lives, have we, as St. Paul urges in Ephesians 5 and Colossians 3, loved our wives as Christ loves his Church?  Have we avoided provoking our children, lest they become discouraged?  God always creates greater good out of evil.  During this time of the pandemic, have we taken advantage of the extra time at home to grow closer to our wives and children?  Have we modeled patience, kindness, and self-sacrificing love?  Have we been family prayer leaders?  In short, as head of the domestic church, have we modeled Christ to our families?  

Most of us are familiar with the old adage “actions speak louder than words.”  Nowhere is this more evident than in the gospels, which record not a single word spoken by St. Joseph, yet richly narrate his actions, which are the perfect model of self-sacrificial love and fatherhood.  In the words of St. Augustine, “see that you praise God not with your lips and voices alone, but with your minds, your lives, and all your actions.”  Like St. Joseph, let us show our wives and children through our lives and our actions what a personal relationship with Jesus looks like and how that relationship is lived out daily within the truth, goodness, and beauty of our Catholic faith.  Through that life and action, we shall fulfill our vocation as fathers and lead our family on the path to heaven.  St. Joseph, the foster father of the Son of God, head of the holy family, an example to parents, and pillar of family life, intercede for us that we might become the holy men of God and fathers we are meant to be.

Deacon Paul D. Lochner
Louis the King, Marquette, Mi